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[quote=Anonymous]Early days are tough. I had two under two for a while. There was / is more tension because it's so much easier to feel like you're the one always doing dinner / bathtime / bedtime [insert any kid task]. I have a super supportive highly engaged husband and we often have to check ourselves before falling in the tit for tat conversation (but i did this yesterday, but I did that two days ago, etc. etc). Here's what helps: laugh as much as you can, have spontaneous sex and make sure husband has food. Literally if I have sex and keep my husband fed, he will basically do anything I say. :) And sometimes that's really helpful because if you're a mom, you know moms end up with the mental load and so you just need someone to delegate to who will not push back and so so happily. [/quote]
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