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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, your money is your money. He racked up the bills, he pays for it. Don't be one of those women who help their men out at their own expense. Women need to be smart and not allow themselves to be manipulated.[/quote] This is dumb. You are married and are a partnership. Don't have separate bank accounts. If you can't share finances, perhaps you should not be together.[/quote] +1 When this is the other way around, I see women posting that he should help pay her debt. Now that it's a man doing it, he needs to take care of it on his own. I think they should pay it together but she should not do so until she gets to the bottom of what exactly he was buying. If we're talking 10 or 20k, what the heck is he spending that much on? How is he "hiding" his purchases? If everything turns out to be fine (ie: he's not cheating) then she should help him pay for the debt and they need to work on finances together.[/quote]
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