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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is an adult. You can’t control her body, but you can set house rules: 1) She can live with you as long as she is in school and shows you progress reports 2) She must pay for her own spending aside from housing: phone, insurance, clothes, spending $ 3) New drugs in the home 4) She’s on her own with illegal activity of Amy kind: make it clear you will not bail her out or pay for lawyers; etc 5) Reasonable house rules: clean own stuff, contribute to joint chores, call by x time if not coming home. You can’t control who she spends time with and it’s not reasonable to expect she’s never sleeping elsewhere 6) you’d be surprised how little stigma there is about tattoos. I think they’re gross, but t it’s not a hill to die on 7) Teach her budgeting NOW. Say she can live rent-free with you as long adventures you develop a budget together. You Need a Budget software is really good [/quote] Forgot to mention: get the book Boundaries![/quote]
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