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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you have to do the mandatory counseling session as a couple before using donor materials? My spouse and I did when we lived in MD, it is helpful for this kind of situation.[/quote] No. Question: how did you deal with the fact that one of you guys were not the bio-parent because that eliminates that whole ("he/she looks like you") and the whole "our baby" stuff where you have a shared aspiration/anticipation. I think there can still be a shared aspiration but it has to be about raising the kid together not focused on the physical traits. Did you actively think about/consider that or were you just naturally sensitive to it?[/quote]
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