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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know men are visual and the most beautiful women receive the most declarations of love and marriage proposals.

What to do when you’re homely and plain and don’t inspire love and lust inmen? What if you’re just...invisible?

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Not true in my case. I was very beautiful when I was young (I would frequently get approached by modeling agencies) and all of the guys I fell in love with dumped me and married objectively plain (and in one case homely) women. These were all good looking successful guys. Go figure. BTW, before I get flamed, I was also a very kind, sweet and intelligent person. Go figure. In any case, there is obviously hope for you. It seems it isn’t all about looks, unless my exes were all weird anomalies.[/quote]

Yeah. I’m the cute but chubby one in my family. My DH was dorky looking in our 20’s but has grown into his looks and is objectively attractive now. I see other women checking him out all the time.

My cousin who is one year older than me is truly beautiful. She always had perfect teeth, great smile, beautiful face, long legs, thin with just the right amount of curves. Anytime we were together she would always get so much attention from guys. Fast forward a decade and she’s a single mom struggling as a teacher. I think maybe she felt like she never had to try? Or if she would always have endless opportunities? Whatever it is, she’s still very attractive, but single.

My DH and I work in similar fields and we have two kids. We’re fairly comfortable. I feel like my cousin won the genetic lottery, but I played the hand I was dealt much better. Looks matter, but they’re not everything.

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