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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Quitting or continuing a sport isn't going to be the difference maker for college admissions. Kids change as do interests but that doesn't sound like the situation here.

If the family can no longer afford for her to participate in the sport, then tell her that, and deal with the disappointment and fallout (and maybe sock that $4K in a 529 for her).

But advising or requiring your daughter to quit something she loves (that you can still, probably afford) because she isn't doing as well relative to other competitors sounds awful OP. The whole notion of strategizing or optimizing is really off-putting OP. You compete in sports to be healthy, to make friends and to improve, not just win.

Also - FWIW donut hole families are far more likely to get financial aid and scholarship money at the next level down of colleges, not Ivy-grade ones. Broaden your thinking.[/quote]

Yes, it's awful, but you and I both know that if she put that 15-20 hours per week onto some academic team, she'll probably win something, which WILL count towards admission, and is basically free of cost to the family.  As is, she is wasting her time and our money.  I don't think I should say it to her like that, though.  Kids are fragile, and studios do all they can to hold on to all of them for $$$, so they tell kids their potential unrealistically.

Hopefully she'll just see it for herself by spring.  [/quote]

Being on an "academic team," even if it wins, isn't going to be the thing that secures her a spot in an elite college either. I feel bad for you kid. Sounds like she's headed to some sort of therapy as a young adult regardless.[/quote]

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