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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mom of HS girl with BF.  The reason to reach out is to make sure they do not have access to an empty house.  That can be embarrassing to bring up given that they ar 13.  I think you could do it once they are hanging out at your house or hers.  Until then, if they are in public only, maybe too awkward.  You’d say “ i’ve noticd our kids are hanging out. Our family rule is that DS may not be in co-ed hangouts in houses where no parent is present. So far, they seem to be only interested in hanging out in groups or . . . But I wanted to pass on my number so you had it.”  Kind of tough to send I think.

In contrast, if you wait until they are at some point hanging at your house, you could deliver the same message as a confirmation that you will be home and happy to host them. If they go on a one-on-one date to the movies, I also think it’s fine to send a note confirming what you understand the plan is.[/quote]

Dont you do the same when they are at a house with somebody of their same gender or of the gender which they are not attracted? to make sure they are not drinking?[/quote]

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