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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Funny that you think it is in the child's best interest to have to live in a different house each week --- or live out of a suitcase shifting back and forth every 2-3 days. Who would want to live like a nomad? It would be incredibly disruptive. Your child could have a lot more stability living primarily in one home. The other parent (who has secondary custody/time) can still have a positive relationship with the child. [b][OK, so you're totally willing for the non-custodial parent to be you, right? No wait, there are a million reasons why you can't be the "secondary" parent. But thanks for your transparently dishonest rationalization for why you should get everything you want.][/b] From my observations, the dad fights for 50/50 custody to avoid paying child support. It is always about the money....and usually means the child will pay the price in stress....if the kid has to shuffle back and forth constantly. [b][From my observation, women fight for full custody because they want to milk more child support out of the dad. It is always about the money, and these women couldn't care less that reduction in the father's role has a profoundly negative influence on the children][/b] The parents are the ones who gave up on the marriage...why should the kid be inconvenienced and stressed and have to live out of a suitcase b/c the parents couldn't get their act together? [b][Don't pretend this is about anything other than YOUR convenience and what YOU want.][/b] [/quote] [/quote]
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