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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think I'd say it is HORRIBLE but it is not that great. And not likely to improve. We have times when we're totally fine with each other but I don't trust her.

She was kind of emotionally abusive while I was a kid. I think she has borderline personality disorder. It means that she is very afraid of me abandoning her so is frequently creating dramatic scenarios where she needs me so I can't leave. I would never leave forever, but I do not like drama so am constantly anxious around her.

She also never asks about me with the intention of knowing anything about me. She is always waiting for her turn to talk. And making underhanded comments about my choices. But not really caring to know why I made them etc. She frequently creates a rotating family feud and tries to rally troops to her side and wants to spend all her time talking to you about that.

So a lifetime of sustained behavior that shows that she really only cares about herself and is willing to be destructive towards loved ones in order to create a 'best' environment for her. [/quote]

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