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[quote=Anonymous]No.  you will never trust him again.  How ever much you want it to work, every time he works late, every time he doesn't answer his phone, every time he travels, every time he crosses paths with this woman, you will suspect something.  Do you want to live like that?

Affairs are not a symptom of deeper issues in a marriage.  Affairs are an act of emotional violence against ones spouse, the same as any other kind of abuse.  Don't ever let anyone, therapist or otherwise, suggest you had anything to do with your spouse's decision to repeatedly cheat, lie, and manipulate you.  It's likely your marriage wasn't perfect, but no relationship is perfect.  But no amount of nagging, lack of sex, lack of communication, fill in the blank, justifies the kind of emotional abuse your spouse repeatedly chose to put you through.

If your spouse even hints that you had anything at all to do with the affair, get out now. You are still in an abusive relationship and it will happen again. [/quote]

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