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[quote=Anonymous]Also, are there any other options to deal with a situation where it will be destroyed despite your objection?

I'm in the middle of a very high-conflict divorce from someone who is behaving in a really horrendous manner. I had hoped to get out of this situation with a negotiation that would let me use the embryos independently, but he is not negotiating any aspect of this divorce. Every component of it will be litigated. Whether there are 7 days in a week will be litigated.

I obviously don't see how it is moral to bring another child into this conflict, given what I've seen thus far, but I can't say that now because then he would switch positions and say I want them myself. He does and says anything that he thinks will harm me the most.

I do not want a compassionate transfer but would like to know in advance the day and time they will be destroyed. There are so many of them I think the likelihood that one would have worked is pretty high. Maybe it's morbid or awful, but I would like to know the moment they are destroyed.

I have thought about embryo adoption but I don't think I could live with that either, even if someone would want them despite my medical history. That would be such torture, and not fair to the siblings. [/quote]

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