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I am in your shoes, OP, and have been for a while. However I am here on a visa that does not allow me to earn income. There is no way I can divorce him. And my husband wonders why I have been having PANIC ATTACKS.

I have a solution for you.
Your husband is showing all the signs of ADHD. Not being able to prioritize, multitask and pay attention to details are all red flags. ADHD can be successfully treated with a daily stimulant medication.

You need to get him to a psychiatrist for a diagnosis, and sell this as a solution to everything: he will be independent and you won't need to nag and mother him. He will need a cardiac work-up before taking medication for ADHD - stimulants can be dangerous for certain types of cardiac issues, but have been proven, over a span of 50 years, to be otherwise safe.
Be sure to accompany him to his appointment, because the psychiatrist needs an outside witness to describe the impact of the patient's behavior. Most mental health patients cannot accurately understand the consequence of their actions on their immediate environment.

Sadly, my own husband denies he has ADHD, even though he has been diagnosed and received a prescription. I hope your husband can be more reasonable.[/quote]

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