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[quote=Anonymous]So sorry!  I feel the same way.  I did end up doing DE (after 6 IVF cycles, and 4 failed transfers).  Had our first easily (yay for a lottery win!), but then found out we have severe MF, plus I was 41 b/c I got started late.  After a chemical from that last cycle at 43, I decided it didn't make sense to keep going (still wanted to, though).  I never had issues with the concept of DE and having a DE child, but it did take me a while to get comfortable with the realities of the actual process.  I started researching when I started my second cycle, and had already selected the donor and completed quite a bit of paperwork when I did my last OE cycle.  Not that moving to DE is the same, but I definitely didn't "feel" done with OE.  It was my logical side knowing that I was moving into the realm of irrational if I kept going.  Having DE as an option just made it a zillion times easier emotionally than going cold turkey.

My friend decided to stop at 1 - I think my experience put her off of IVF.  She planned stuff she loved to do that she couldn't do pregnant or with a tiny baby as a way to get over the hump.
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