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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not about what your kids do so quit victim
Blaming. It's about YOU THE PARENT. Do you give your kid enough attention? Does anyone who know you know you would kill a human who harmed them? Kids who have that aren't chosen as victims because the abuser knows they aren't good targets.

Kids who aren't shown love and acceptance at home are targeted. Abusers can tell they are hungry for attention and what will pass as "love." Kids who are taught to unconditionally obey an authority like, idk, THE CHURCH, are targeted. Parents make kids victims, not the kids. [/quote]

Agreed. My parents felt I was disrespectful to my abuser because I didn’t want to hug/kiss that relative at hello or goodbye. They didn’t know at the time, but they also didn’t ask. They were just so authoritarian. My dad, almost four decades later, still hates that I don’t make my kids hug or kiss anyone.

Also, my parents were so distracted by their marital issues that they ignored clear classic signs of abuse until I was 14 and my abuser violently sexually assaulted me.[/quote]

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