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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married, kids, husband wasn't happy because I didn't give him enough attention when the kids were little. He cheated. I changed/fixed absolutely everything. He acknowledged my changes, was remorseful, and things were better than they were at the beginning. I thought it was our second chance. Just recently found out he is now with someone else (and apparently was cheating with her during our "good period"). He definitely wants a divorce.

My story is not unusual. I just can't get past my pain. How do I do this? Why can't I see that him cheating is not a reflection on me? Why am I still trying to so hard to save this if I'm the only one? Part of my problem is that I hate change, crave familiarity, and truly, truly loved him. It's not just an "I can't find someone else" thing. It's that I want HIM, even though it makes no sense.

Any advice from BTDT people?[/quote]

You may want to seek counseling to sort through your feelings with an objective source.  This in no way implies that you are in the wrong for anything; on the contrary.  It will help you get your life back together and move on with your kids, and hopefully find happiness in the future (with or without another man).[/quote]

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