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[quote=Anonymous]I also have a poor communicator husband, who has the added bonus of ADHD so can't remember things we (or anyone) has discussed, is very disorderly, and has no interests outside of his parents and his office work. Any setback (and we suffer a lot of them, big and little), is met by his immature defensiveness, anger, and attack onto the person pointing it out/seeking a solution. It is truly bizarre. Everyone notices it. He would rather argue about some tiny little detail than the issue at hand, or bring up excuse after excuse. OP, if you are anything like this it will be a lot to unpack in counseling. It is NOT a personality difference, it is something else and at this point is also depression, anxiety, passive aggressiveness. But you need to think hard and rewind to find the actual underlying issue. Then he will need to do the same and fix it. Don't go loony in the meantime. People can be really F'd up. [/quote]
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