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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I could have written this myself (except we have two kids). My reaction depends on his mood, how much of a fight it will start and my tolerance at that moment. Sometimes I will just shut down and shut him out, which he notices but usually doesn't say anything. Sometimes I will say, that wasn't very nice/I don't think I deserved that/that hurt my feelings. He usually has some sort of excuse about why it's my fault. And every once in awhile, I'm spoiling for a fight so I lash right back.

The only reason I've been able to stick it out is because we regularly have long, open, deep discussions about our frustrations and feelings. It does not always end warm and fuzzy with hugs and/or makeup sex (sometimes it does), but it does allow me to hang in there just a little bit longer if I know I'm being heard. I would say at least half the time I don't get any kind of remorse from him, but sometimes it does register that he's hurting me and he checks himself.

I don't know if it'll last forever, but...day by day, I guess.[/quote]

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