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[quote=Anonymous][quote]She said she doesn’t want to lose me, but doesn’t want me to resent her if we don’t have kids. I’m confused and unsure of things now. [/quote] unfortunately, this is not a promise you can make. It is a fundamental test of compatibility. She might also resent you if you do have kids and she realizes she never wanted them. I have a feeling she is not going to change her mind about wanting them--perhaps she may agree to keep you, but that's not the same thing. that being said, its reasonable for her--or someone else--to say that they do not want 3 or 4 kids. I would not want 3-4 kids for a huge number of reasons--and I would not marry someone who would not be happy with only one or two, no matter how great everything else is. [/quote]
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