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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a therapy program which includes individual therapy and group class.

There’s one guy in my class and he’s very attractive and funny and I’ve had a harmless fun crush on him for a few months. He’s around 35 and I’m 27. Just sort of look forward to seeing him every week. We’ve chatted a couple times after class, just about our experience in the program and experience living in a rural area where it’s hard to meet people. One time he complimented a graphic t shirt I was wearing and we talked about the movie it referenced. In general I get the sense he is in this class more as a self-improvement thing whereas I really have emotional skills deficits that need to change to make my life worth living.

He’s married with kids, but has mentioned in class that he has opened his marriage in the past and he’d had a girlfriend. I’m single.

A few weeks ago when he saw that I had a coffee from a local place he mentioned that he loves that place and always goes there before class to work on our homework. Last week when I had another coffee from there he said “Missed you again!” And then shortly after that he explained that he’s been meaning to give me his number if I wanted to come hang out at his farm, play with his animals, etc because he knows how hard it is to find like-minded friends here.

I’m not really looking for opinions on the ethics/appropriateness of pursuing a relationship, or advice whether not to, but do offer that if you feel like it. I’ve already asked the facilitator of my group about it and discussed it/will continue discussing it with my therapist. In my ideal fantasy if he was into me I would have the skills and emotional maturity to engage in a casual relationship with him but I don’t think I do. Just want a gut check if this is flirting or being nice/platonic.

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He is prob in therapy to pick up chicks. Avoid. No way his wofe knows the marriage is open. [/quote]

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