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Reply to "women's invisible labor - anyone had luck getting spouse to take on more of the mental work?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I’m not ready to let some of my stuff go, so I’m not going to have a conversation with him. The first step is getting me to care a little less about HOW it gets done. I realize my perfectionism plays a part in this. ...and other times it’s not perfectionism but CARING. I just don’t think he will ever care as much as I do. In the meantime, I’ll continue the pattern of me delegating to him (but with me still retaining the mental load of asking him to begin with / following up). Not ready yet -NP[/quote]
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