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[quote=Anonymous]You have to take the money completely out of this. People can decide to have more or less contact with family members for lots of reasons. In your case, on the pro side there's the chance for nice vibes that can come from get togethers. On the con side, the mother in this case seems to be a bit high maintenance. Rarely do we ding our relationships with our family members to be perfect. Sometimes, there are bumps and awkward moments that get smoothed over. Other times the relationship is toxic and/or manipulative. All of these elements can exist even when there is absolutely no money issues in the mix. You and your DH (it's his parents) need to find a level of contact you think works on a social/emotional level. The economic level should not be a part of the conversation.[/quote]
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