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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your within your rights to insist your spouse not connect with the ex but if it was 30 years ago, it may be just that the person is interested in catching up with people they used to know.  I'm facebook friends with my ex from 1983 - but my spouse knows that I have no interest in rekindling anything with him.  Anyway, maybe you just have to trust your gut. Sounds like you're suspicious and maybe you have good reason to be.[/quote]

+1.  My mother met with her ex-fiance years ago (probably about 30 years after they broke up and called off the wedding).  I think it was cathartic for both sides.  It turns out the guy was dying of cancer.  If my mom had refused to meet with him, she probably never would have known (and regretted it).

I'm friends with my wife's high school sweetheart.  I don't know if I would want him staying in our house while I wasn't there or anything, but he's a good guy.  I trust my wife, and that she chose me for a reason.  I think the OP should do likewise.  [/quote]

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