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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should break up with her. Then give her my number.

Troll. [/quote]

Op here. I am not a troll. I was raised in a household where you never said such a thing to any woman. We have plenty of kinky sex, it’s huat the actual sl*t  word and others that I’m not comfortable with. [b]Don’t call me a troll just because I am not a pig.[/b] [/quote]

This is going to be a problem in your relationship. 
If you don't speak up, you will be doing something that makes you uncomfortable and weirdly judging her for "making" you do/say things that make you uncomfortable. If you do speak up, you are basically going to be telling her that you are not a "safe" person to share her fantasies with. And she may tell you it's okay and it's no big deal and just drop it. But this desire will still be here for her and it will lead to issues in your incompatibility.
I think the best thing you can do is try to understand that this comes from a place of intimacy. And in intimacy, the idea is to feel SO SAFE with one another that truly nothing is off limits with what you share with your partner in the bedroom. You might be surprised at how "into it" you can get when you set aside your inhibitions and just roll with it. Mostly because when you see how hot it makes her, you might really enjoy it! But if you keep on with this "something must be wrong with you to make you want me to disrespect you" nonsense, it will not end well, OP.

Bottom line is that you may just be incompatible and you should flag this and decide how you want to deal with it [i]before[/i] the wedding.[/quote]

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