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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend and I have a good relationship. We are early 30’s with intentions of getting marriage. We have amazing, frequent sex, but lately she has been asking for rough sex with vulgar language. It’s not every time, but when we drink, she gets a little more freaky. I don’t want to be very explicit so it doesn’t get put in another forum. She described herself as “ sexually submissive” and sometimes likes to be called names like “ sl*t” and have rough sex - hair pulling, spanking, being tired up, etc.[b] To my knowledge she has never been abused or anything to warrant this. If it was some random, I would be willing, but because I respect and love her, I have a hard time calling her that[/b]. We definitely have fun and things can get a little more anaimalistic, but I wasn’t raised to call women those kinds of names. She said she is fine with it and knows I still love her, but I’m afraid to blur this lines. I don’t want to offend her or one say she feel that I mean what I’m saying.[/quote]
You might want to read up on this a little bit. If a random woman was asking you to do this that would be a sign that something is off, but the fact that your girlfriend enjoys this type of interaction in the context of a steady, loving relationship does not mean anything is wrong or something happened to warrant "this". You don't have to engage if it makes you uncomfortable, but your whole tone here, especially in the bolded, is extremely offputting.[/quote]

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