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[quote=Anonymous][b]How long have you been married?[/b] Married for 20 years; truly happy. We enjoy each other's company, have a great sex life, and just generally like the other person for who they are. [b]Do you have kids and do you think that adds or detracts from your happiness as a married couple? [/b] We have three teens. I wouldn't want to parent with anyone else. He was always the better parent to our kids when they were young. I think we are about equal now, but we rely on each other to actively parent every day. [b]Do you think it's mostly luck that you're happy together or effort or both?[/b] Neither? We chose each other because we are happier together. In 20 years I think we've only had one real tough spot, and that was after my husband suffered a TBI from an accident. Other than that, it's like I found my other half. I don't have to force it, or create a date night, or schedule intimacy (physical or emotional). The spark is just there. If anything we foster it by taking care of the other person, but that doesn't generally take a [i]conscious[/i] effort. It's just part of who we are as people, and as a couple. [/quote]
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