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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW and I have gone through a rough patch over the last five years or so and are thinking through whether and how to move forward.  I asked her whether I was the love of her life, and she responded that she doesn’t think in those terms and doesn’t know how to answer that question.  She cannot say I am, but she cannot say that any prior love was either.  I told her that she is without a doubt the love of my life (thus far)as I have never loved anyone as deeply as I have loved her. We have been together for 20 years.

If she cannot say this about me, I am inclined to skip the tedium of trying to make it work  and instead go look elsewhere.  I recognize that I may not find a person who feels that way about me, in which case I will just have fun only dating and never be so tied down to one relationship again.

Recognizing that, like most affairs of the heart this area is quite dubjective, I am interested in thoughtful comments about whether I am being unreasonable or otherwise wrongheaded here, or whether her inability to say that I am the love of her life is a signal that it may be time to move on.  [/quote]

Yes you are being unreasonable and have watched too many romantic comedies.  What do you mean "the love of your life?"  Does she say she doesn't love you or that she hates you?  Just be happy she was honest with you and move on![/quote]

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