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[quote=Anonymous]DW and I have gone through a rough patch over the last five years or so and are thinking through whether and how to move forward.  I asked her whether I was the love of her life, and she responded that she doesn’t think in those terms and doesn’t know how to answer that question.  She cannot say I am, but she cannot say that any prior love was either.  I told her that she is without a doubt the love of my life (thus far)as I have never loved anyone as deeply as I have loved her. We have been together for 20 years.

If she cannot say this about me, I am inclined to skip the tedium of trying to make it work  and instead go look elsewhere.  I recognize that I may not find a person who feels that way about me, in which case I will just have fun only dating and never be so tied down to one relationship again.

Recognizing that, like most affairs of the heart this area is quite dubjective, I am interested in thoughtful comments about whether I am being unreasonable or otherwise wrongheaded here, or whether her inability to say that I am the love of her life is a signal that it may be time to move on.  [/quote]

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