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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean, that hasn't worked?[/quote]

I mean, we dated for a while, fooled around heavily, and they were pushing me to have sex with them. When I told them that if I slept with them I would want us to be exclusive and in a relationship (not just going on dates and having sex a few times a month), they bailed.[/quote]

Op here. More details as summary above isn't quite accurate.

I said I needed it to be exclusive fairly early on. We went on more dates after that, went pretty far physically. But they never agreed to be exclusive but kept trying to get me to sleep with them. When I restated that I needed exclusivity and a relationship, not just casual dating, they bailed within a week.

This has happened with three men. Before these men, I've been in six relationships with men with whom I had sex. All those men actually were the ones who raised exclusivity and the relationship just sort of developed. Now I feel like all the men I am meeting just want to sleep with me right away, don't want exclusivity, want to keep things very casual, and are very entitled to sleep with me despite any sort of commitment.[/quote]

Just curious here, but can I ask how old you and these guys are?    I'm just sort of disheartened for my younger friends that this seems to be par for the course these days.[/quote]

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