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[quote=Anonymous]That they made a personal choice that has no other effect. My wife is on marriage #2. When we got married, she still had the surname of her first husband. I told her she could change to my name, change back to her maiden name, or make up a new name. The only option I asked her not to choose was to keep her first husband's name. Note that I would have married her anyway had she chosen to keep that name (she had it for 14 years, and had some good professional reasons to want to keep it), but I was happier that she chose not to. She opted for my name so that we would all share a family name when we had kids, but it was totally her choice and I would have had no problems accepting her regardless of the name. I am more judgmental of archaic people who are bothered when a woman chooses not to take her husband's surname than I am by the women who choose not to.[/quote]
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