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[quote=Anonymous]Op I felt the same way you did when we started the DE process, but our clinic insisted on a psych screening for all patients using 3rd party reproduction, and it was very helpful. The main purpose of it was this very issue, and our psychologist was very good at pointing out all the pros and cons of disclosure vs nondisclosure. We decided that we will tell our kids, but we haven't agreed on exactly when since they are 4 and 2, but most so called experts say the sooner the better. Like one pp said with genetic testing likely to get even better and more widely available, secrets such as this are likely to come out eventually which would jeopardize your relationship with your child if they were to find out as a teenager or adult.[/quote]
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