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[quote=Anonymous]We've had fights maybe 4 or 5 times in our 8 year relationship. And our fights look like us getting a little bit of an attitude with each other, then telling each other why we're mad (in a pretty irritated tone), and then taking anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour trying to come to a resolution. I can think of maybe 1 disagreement in 8 years where the bad feelings lasted overnight. My husband is super laid back and I'm super direct. We went through pre-marital counseling and specifically learned techniques for how to disagree in a healthy way (the most irritating one is minor physical touch during a disagreement, like sitting next to each other on thr couch - maddening but it totally works - read John Gottmans research). Our lives are pretty easy and not a lot to fight about - money is comfortable, families are under control, sex life is where we both want it. I find it more odd when couples fight a lot. Like... why? [/quote]
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