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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much would this bother you?  Without my knowledge my DH invited his stepmother to move in and be our "au pair."  I don't think she'd take him up on it, but still ... It bugs me in large part because DH already leaves me to be the default parent, and now it seems like he just wants ANOTHER female in the house to do his work for him. Not to mention the fact that I am the one who has to do all the hosting work when she visits, so it's not like it's actually less work for me.  (I mean, she's helpful, but I have to do all the planning, shopping, scheduling etc etc.)  DH also disappears for long stretches of time when she visits and expects me to entertain her.

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No no no.

No grandparents pretending to be au pairs and live in YOUR house.

No paying grandparents in food or money or housing to live in your house and pretent to be you au pair.

No au pair of any sort in order to ENABLE your husband to check-out of his fathering and husbanding duties.

No dumping everything on you all the time and not communicating big decisions like this. [/quote]

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