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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 36 and divorcing. Been separated in a highly contested divorce for 2 years now. I don't date. I have gone out on occasion. I do a TON of self-work, been in therapy for many years. I just want to say that it is not encouraging to wonder the "what-ifs" during the process, and be ordered back to a corner with your self-reflection and mommy cap. After being married for 12 years, doing it all, I remember being exhausted and getting the break on occasion. I never got grief for wanting romantic connection then, but now suddenly I'm irresponsible or uncaring or selfish if I want to have an option in life? I gave all that I had in my marriage. I did not work to get here, I fought like hell to avoid it. But I'm here now. Alone and starting over again. Try to be a little more encouraging for some of us other bored DCUM divorcees/divorcee-wannabes in 2018. Maybe that empathy will come back to you one day. That said, I know its DCUM, so...whatever. Carry on.[/quote]
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