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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I guess I was not clear.  The child has responsibility, yes, but she is also under her mother's sway.  So she's not a free actor, but neither is she without independent judgement.

I also did not mean to equate what I do for her as tit for tat in terms of time.  We have a great time together, do activities, etc.  But because I have more resources, and because I am not incredibly bitter and angry like her mother, I have gone out of my way to make her life more fun and livable at BOTH houses.  I was the one who found and arranged her favorite activity.  I have been the one to buy her things for both houses, rather than just have the "cool" stuff here.  [/quote]

Doing activities is not parenting.  You don't need to buy for both houses.  Mom should be buying for her house, you for your house.  If she doesn't want to be with you, and Mom is saying don't go or supporting it, then its on Mom.  Could it be a child support issue?  Mom wants daughter full-time to get more child support (or get child support).[/quote]

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