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[quote=Anonymous]NP. I know how you feel OP because I’m going through this right. Ow. It saddens me and I don’t know what to do next. The previous post someone said “Op is at high risk of having an affair” and I’m afraid that’s what I’m feeling but I feel terribly guilty of even thinking that.

I’ve talked to DH. I’ve tried more sex. I wanted marriage counseling but he said what’s the pioint. Yet he doesn’t want to divorce. He brings it up when we fight and says it like a threat, but he’s never had a plan: he doesn’t want to sit down and be civil to talk about how it will work. So every time i try to communicat d it goes nowhere.

We do have kids. I need to feel loved again. I really do not think he’s had any affairs, because he’s so into his work and other business and ideas. But then sometimes I feel maybe I’m fooling myself. He’s never gone or disappeared for long period of time, and he doesn’t travel for work that much.....

I’m just so sad. He’s a great dad and talks to the kids and takes them out etc. but he’s so consumed with his work and businesses he doesn’t have time to really talk and listen to me. He never initiated date night, and I just felt so one sided and stopped planning for it. I have much more fun with my friends but when I am with him he doesn’t want to listen and talk. When we both are with friends, he is good at faking this happy couple image. But I’m so tired of this faking and acting[/quote]

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