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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it possible to get a copy of a police report if I am not a victim or victimizer?[/quote] If you OP are P.L., please stop. I’m not going to testify against him. I’m sorry you married him, but you wouldn’t have listened if I had warned you.[/quote] Not OP, but you have to testify if you are not the spouse. You don't get spousal privilege. [/quote] I was the spouse at the time. Who is going to protect me and my child in the aftermath? Not testifying.[/quote] Who is protecting you now? No one. And he is on the street, able to get a gun any time he wants. Not to scare you, but [b]your best bet is to believe in the system.[/b] [/quote] NP - the bolded depends on what kind of action she's being asked to testify for. Criminal? While he's in jail? Sure, this could be true. DV Protective order? No ones going to protect her after, and there are all kinds of ways for him to retaliate if he chooses (and gun purchase loopholes too). When a woman says that testifying would endanger her and her child, you LISTEN and don't ask any more questions. (I'm a DV survivor, share custody with my former abuser, and I get it)[/quote]
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