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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Do you have a lover?

Btw I left my cheating husband but if he had treated me with respect I probably would have stayed.[/quote]

No. I'm not that into sex. I never was. Probably part of the problem.

He has always treated me with great respect beyond the cheating and telling me he had lost his sexual attraction to me after I had kids and had some cancer. He wasn't good with that. He exited stage left and spent all his time at work. I had to ask friends for rides to the hospital, etc.

He respects me for raising the kids and for basically behaving like an adult I guess, when I could have gone crazy.

I just don't believe in going crazy. I have a strong sense of self-preservation, and he's a wealthy man. If I divorced him I have no doubt he'd marry his affair partner and that would be far, far worse than his just having a long term affair relationship with her.

He is what he is. I feel like I just sort of optimized what that can be, given circumstances, as opposed to shooting holes in things that I couldn't take back.

If that makes sense. [/quote]

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