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Reply to "Why do they say to wait a long time to start a new relationship after a divorce/separation?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t date for several months after I separated and divorced and I’m happy I didn’t. Like someone else said, I feel like it’s too easy to cling to someone just to fill a void. I actually really loved the time I spent by myself. I got an apartment in a quiet, out of the way part of town. My ex always had to have to TV blaring and left clutter around. I enjoyed keeping my apartment clean, [b]washing my floors by hand[/b] (I know that sounds weird lol), learning how to cook new things, walking my dog more, and listening to jazz music with the TV off! I really learned how to take care of everything myself and learn to enjoy spending time alone with myself. When I did start dating, I felt less inclined to settle and more like I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner. Like the old saying goes, “you have to be able to love yourself before you can love anyone else.”[/quote] I thought I was the only one!!!! *soulmate*[/quote]
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