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Reply to "Why do they say to wait a long time to start a new relationship after a divorce/separation?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I didn’t date for several months after I separated and divorced and I’m happy I didn’t. Like someone else said, I feel like it’s too easy to cling to someone just to fill a void. I actually really loved the time I spent by myself. I got an apartment in a quiet, out of the way part of town. My ex always had to have to TV blaring and left clutter around. I enjoyed keeping my apartment clean, washing my floors by hand (I know that sounds weird lol), learning how to cook new things, walking my dog more, and listening to jazz music with the TV off! I really learned how to take care of everything myself and learn to enjoy spending time alone with myself. When I did start dating, I felt less inclined to settle and more like I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner. Like the old saying goes, “you have to be able to love yourself before you can love anyone else.”[/quote]
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