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Reply to "Importance of "no contact" after a breakup"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to disengage so you can break the patterns of spending time with that person, relying on them for your emotional needs and so on. Being with someone can become a habit -- calling them at a certain time each day and the like. Cutting off contact helps you to stop that so both of you can move on and not have at least one you in "maybe we are going to make up" mode. [/quote] I think this more than the first paragraph in the PP farther up above. It's more of breaking the patterns. Having them be the person you're used to calling; used to having an automatic fall back fridaynight handout person. You can despise the person you are dating but it still sucks to be suddenly single and have to face braving saturday nights solo again. That sadness can make you gravitate towards wanting to be with your ex again. Much better to cut all ties and move on with your life, lest you fall back into old bad habits. [/quote]
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