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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to give yourself the space and mental break to allow yourself to begin to move on, cut ties, and envision your life without them going forward. If you stay in touch, it (generally) will delay the moving on and getting over them process. You'll continue to invest mental energy in this person (and, often, torture yourself with fantasies that you can get back together and make it work). It's harder to cut contact but much better for you in the long run, in most cases [/quote] Exactly.[/quote] +1. Also, assuming you are not the one who initiates the breakup, it's the best way to do yourself a favor and maintain your dignity. Not because it really matters what that person thinks, but so you can look back on this likely rough period and feel proud about how you handled yourself (rather than cringing about how you acted a fool or whatever). [/quote] + a million to both comments[/quote]
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