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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]None of my friends can go due to no money,. child commitments, etc.[/quote]

Go alone!  Traveling alone is awesome.  I've done it (I'm a woman) many times and highly recommend it.  And I have lots of friends but it's fun to travel by yourself [/quote]
To Nairobi, Kenya? I'm not sure I feel safe doing that.  :?: And it just feels like it would be more fun with someone by my side to share the moments with. 
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Find a tour group. There are groups out there based on age of travelers, interests, groups specifically catering to solo travelers who don't want to deal with safety/booking/logistics issues. Well worth it. You'll be among people who WANT to be where you are rather than resenting it. Most groups build in time where you're not with others too. i wouldn't do this particular trip alone with zero help on things like booking a safe hotel, traveling to see animals with experienced, reputable guides, etc. friends who have traveled there have said there are some ripoff "safaris" etc. so you need some help ensuring this is a good experience.

Do not press BF to go.

You do realize, I hope, that you and BF have huge issues that are not just about trips, right? You do see that his F-you immature tantrums are not merely about his wanting to stay home--? Please think hard about how he speaks to you ALL the time; whether he respects your choices when they're different from his; whether he ever encourages you, sincerely, to do your own thing....[/quote]

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