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[quote=Anonymous]I have discovered that my husband has been looking at several white supremacist websites over the past week or so. I discovered by chance after seeing a tab open on his computer. I have checked the browser history several times and he has repeatedly been looking at several of these sites (Daily Stormer and the like). He is a conservative, but not a Trump supporter--definitely more of a Commentary-type Republican than a Breitbart Republican. I'm genuinely shocked by this and I'm not sure what I should do. It is completely out of character for him.

Given that it is so out of character for him to read things like this, I'm hoping that it's only some sort of morbid curiosity triggered by all the coverage of these groups following Charlottesville (I noticed that he googled several of the people mentioned in news reports). But part of me fears that something has snapped inside of him and that this is the beginning of a downward spiral into a vile subculture.

I have avoided confronting him because I'm trying to get a sense of what is really going on here and once I tell him I know, I assume he will erase his browsing history so I won't be able to find out anything more. My hope is that this is just a weird bout of curiosity about something taboo, that he sees it for what it is, and will give up looking at the sites. But I just can't get over this fear that he will get sucked into it and our relationship will be destroyed. We have two young children, but I would consider drastic measures if I felt like he was actually starting to believe in white supremacist ideology. [/quote]

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