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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All that time he didn't know how to show me he loved me, my love for him was dying and it's not coming back.  I don't hate him.  I like him.  I just don't have any romantic or sexual feelings for him and I don't think any amount of counseling or date nights, or vacations will help.  It would be an easy decision for me to leave if we didn't have kids -- 11, 9, and 7.  How do I do that to them?   [/quote]

I am in much the same situation except I am the DH and my DW doesn't have any romantic or sexual feelings for me (and as that has been abundantly obvious for a long time, right now I don't have any romantic or sexual feelings for her either); counseling, date nights, vacations have not helped; and, we have kids and I don't want to hurt them with a divorce. I am also waffling. Daily life fluctuates between OK, not happy, and occasionally miserable. My therapist keeps prodding me to make a decision. None of the options look good (divorce, cheat, spend life in sexless/affectionless co-parenting).[/quote]

Hello, me. [/quote]

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