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[quote=Roar]If he read the book, he actually cares.  Success is your orgasm (orally), correct?

If intercourse means very little to you, he's actually trying to finish quickly to minimize impact on you.  Your perception might be its inpersonal, yet he might not feel your positive reaction, regardless of position and interprets that as a dead fish.

Here's my suggestion, let him investigate vibrators you can use together.  For example, we've got 6 different ones and I really investigated the models from a bunch of providers including Lelo, We Vibe, Hello Touch and the mother of all -- the Hitachi Magic Wand.  Let him purchase one (Adam & Eve always having sales).  When he hits the "spot", Tell him.  If you want "wax on, wax off" motion, tell him.  We will do what you want and it actually improves it.

In return, be enthusiastic and even insert some dirty talk in the mix.  Send a text with double entendre.  Encourage him to do the same.

Think of it as a cat toy on a string....when you dangle the toy, the cat's super engaged.  When you just hand the toy to the cat, it's no longer of interest.

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