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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When DW has a couple drinks she can get really in the mood and the sex is great, the rest of the time I think she does it to keep me happy.
I am tall in great shape with abs and muscles make good enough money so she can SAH. Plus I do things around the house and with our DC all the time.
Its not "alpha" I just do believe that many women, not all, do become uninterested in sex with their husbands. I have had lots of friends wives flirt with me, while their husbands complain about lack of sex[/quote]

Man here in exact same boat.  I read a lot about this, trying to "solve" my wife's low libido only to realize her libido isn't low, it's normal.  It's normal for women in long term relationships to only want sex occasionally and when conditions are right - she is relaxed, no kids bothering her, hotel rooms, vacation.  It's also normal for her to have responsive desire meaning she needs something to turn her on - she isn't going to walk around aroused all day like most men do, ready to have sex at the mention of "yes."  Op hasn't changed, he just doesn't light her fire the same way after all these years, but Brad Pitt wouldn't either if he was married to OP's wife for years and they had kids together.

There is a reason prostitition is the world's oldest profession.  Men want sex more than women, on average.

Solutions for you OP:  get or stay in great shape.  Flirt a lot.  When your wife offers her body to you, go to town, don't be gentle and worry about every move, she will respond to your arousal and if she doesn't because she can't get in the mood, accept her offer of sex as an act of love.  If (when) you have your affair, do it with a married woman with equal to lose.  I speak from experience on the last one.[/quote]

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