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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd rather not get into it all, but, his most recent behavior was mocking my appearance and sexuality. My sister just excuses him. My parents don't want to upset my sister ( story of my life), but I understand because they probably fear not seeing the grandkids. I can mostly tolerate my parents. My biggest struggle in distancing myself is my niece and nephew. [/quote] Sounds like he is pretty much like every bully out there. He has found your hot button and pushes it to get a reaction out of you. Stop giving him that ability by ignoring him when he mocks you. If you are not in therapy and working with a therapist on how to defuse the situation then get some books about bullies and dealing with bullying behavior.[/quote]
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