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[quote=ddintysons][quote]He is currently 38 
-He started having sex at 17. 
-He said he had a high drive in his 20's and had a lot of sex 
-His drive cooled down considerably around 32-33 
-He said that he is low drive right now, with no interest in sex and is fine being that way 
-He has tried porn to turn himself on (that doesn't work) 
-When he does masturbate, he said it takes him 30+minutes 
-He said that he has never been sexually abused, no traumatic experiences 
-[b]He takes a medication for anxiety[/b] 
-He has ed. Very difficult getting an erection. 
-He will not try Viagra. 
-[b]He has low T but will not take medication for that[/b] 
-I asked him what he needed me to do to help, he said that what I already do is fine 
-He has such little interest in sex that he barely touches me. It's always with me prompting, and I can tell he's not into it. 
-He said that he can't think of anything that is a turn on to him to even get him in the mood. [/quote]

Both of the bolded items can have a huge impact on his sex drive.  However, if he does not see it as a problem he will not get help for it.

Have considered a relationship where you saw other another man just for sex?  This does not sound like something you are looking for.  However, if sex is important to you but not him, it might work.

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