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[quote=Anonymous]Have you set up a behavior reinforcement system? Figure out what she wants to work for. Set up a chart, something like... --Toilet was flushed each time it was used. Yes. No --Teeth were brushed with one reminder in the AM. Yes No --Hands were washed after using toilet. Yes No --Teeth were brushed with one reminder in the PM. Yes. No 4 Yes circled = 30 min of screen time (or $ towards a toy or something she really wants) 3 Yes circled = 15 min of screen time (or half $ of what could be earned with 4 Yes circled) Stop the scolding and move towards earning something with positive reinforcement. Every time she leaves the bathroom clean, heaps tons of praise and hugs and smiles. "You did it Larla! Way to be a big girl by taking care of our bathroom. Love it!" Stay super consistent. Once you figure out what her "currency" is, focus on ways to get that. That is the only way this can work. [/quote]
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