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[quote=Anonymous]You want to stay out if it.  There are way too many people that don't want to know and have to confront the situation, would blame you as the messenger, or would be upset for a hot minute then take back a cheater because they see it better than being on her own.

Put the shoe on the other foot and say your neighbor came to you with that info about your DH.  First you would question the source, are you going to believe someone you've known casually for a few years or your DH/father of your children?  Assume DH will deny everything.  Then if there is any inkling that it is true, you will be embarrassed around your neighbor knowing something private about your marriage, and feel judged/want no reminders  if you stay with him despite knowing he cheated.  I don't know if guys ever say anything to other guys, but I know if one of my female friends talked about cheating, I would encourage her to work on marriage or get out, rather than blow it up with cheating but at the end of the day, they are adults that have to live with consequences of their decision.[/quote]

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